Signals that let you know she’s into you

Have you ever been talking to a girl but been unsure whether she is into you? Have you missed opportunities because you couldn’t tell whether she was thinking the same thing?

After all, if you misinterpret the signals, you could end up being rejected and left with a damaged ego. Make sure this doesn’t happen by looking out for these little gestures that she wants you to make the first move:

Laughing

When a girl wants romance, she will become all fidgety and amused at everything you see or do. If she is beaming from ear to ear or giggling at your every word, then watch out for one or more of the indicators listed below…

• Laughing at your jokes
• A genuine, beaming smile
• Giggling even when the conversation goes silent
• She starts doing child-like things to make laughter

Proximity

Is this girl gently touching you to emphasize points, brushing against you or getting up close and personal? If she’s confident to touch you, then she is probably comfortable with your contact too. Test the water further by leaning up against the wall and pulling her in close; if she follows your lead, you’re now in a position to make your move. Is she:

• Touching you
• Talking into your ear
• Gently brushing herself against you
• Moving to be closer to you

Eye Contact

Amongst everything, your eyes can do most of the talking. Nothing builds sexual tension like a long seductive bit of eye contact! Ensure you look deep into her eyes and hold that gaze for as long as you can. You’ll know for sure when:

She holds a strong gaze with you, with comfort and confidence
She isn’t awkwardly looking away or anywhere but at you

Body Language

70% of communication is done by body language alone. So it important to look out for when she:

• Crosses her legs
• Starts playing with her hair
• Fidgets with jewellery, her glass or straw
• She mirrors your actions (i.e. if you lean forward, she does the same)
• Her upper body is facing in your direction

Time

Women don’t always make it easy for guys to know when she wants you to make the first move, so one of the best signals to go by is the amount of time she has spent with you. A girl doesn’t stick with a guy they aren’t attracted to, for hours on end, especially if they have left their friends in order to do so. Can you tick any of these off the list?

• She spends over 15 minutes with just you
• She chooses to stay with you rather than go with friends
• She waits for you to return, whilst you get a drink or go to the toilet

Comfort

Do you want more indicators that she interested in you? Let’s see how comfortable she feels around you. Purposely end the conversation and allow the tension to build from the silence. If she starts the conversation back up, then you’re onto a winner; and even more if she starts the conversation with comfort-building questions that help her to get to know you better.

Make your Move

It takes a few of these signals mentioned to know for sure that she wants you to make a move, but this isn’t an exhausted list – there are many more things a girl may do. When she gives you the hints, it’s a safe bet that she’s interested in you and you can take it further. Over to you…

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